Life is Kind

Hi Guys...this is my niece....

I just met my niece. she is two years old. I dont know why a 2 y.o baby likes to take pics of her self sooo much. lols...I think we, adult...should be aware more on what we do in front of our kids...She is cute. But seeing my cousin and what her sacrifice for her kids...I dont think kid is what I want for now.  

Talking about kids...some of my friends have them already. They say, a closer age gap will reduce understanding gap in parents-children relationship. Me?  I don't think so. A lot of things involve in something we call "understanding". 

It takes so much to raise kids. I was wondering why our government does not require any license to have children. People say it is human rights to have kids. Because kids make them happy. In daily life, we require license to drive cars...because we might conscious or not, causing danger on one's life. Kids? Parents with lack of information and eagerness to learn or simply think they know everything can scar one's life. Some even careless enough and cause death to their kids. Oh, well...human rights they say. 

Being a mother is a great deal. I respect that so much. I think it is a very brave choice. Men? Husband?

Wouldn't it be so nice if you, guys...learn how to take care of our children...learn how to cook, stop playing video games, learn how to educate your children...read them bed time stories.... enrich your self with constructive games with your kids...spend more time with your kids. Man Up, Grow Up. It s not only mothers job to feed the kids...learn about nutrition. 

See...this is why I think being single is better than married to a less participating man that think domestic affairs is only for woman? :))

Friends...get married when you find a descent man. cheers!